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Every Mother Deserves Her Roses. I was fortunate enough to give my mom hers, and I want to help you do the same
adrian Harris • September 12, 2024
Every Mother Deserves Her Roses. I was fortunate enough to give my mom hers, and I want to help you do the same
I want to share a deeply personal story with you, one that has shaped my perspective on life's moments and the incredible women we call our mothers. It’s a story about love, faith, and the importance of celebrating the people we hold dear.
About two years before my mom passed, God placed a thought in my heart that I could never quite shake. For about five years straight, my mom sent me prayers and scripture every morning. At the time, I was grateful for her words, but I didn’t fully understand why she was doing it.
You see, my mom was diagnosed with breast cancer around four years ago. After two years of fighting, she beat it. I can still remember the joy we all felt when she rang that bell—my sister, my dad, and I all believed she was clear. However, as her son, I could see in her eyes that she was never quite the same after beating cancer. Being so connected to my mom, I felt a bit of her pain as she fought daily.
As her 60th birthday approached, my sisters were planning a small dinner to celebrate. I, living 2,500 miles away, couldn’t do much. But then, two weeks prior to her birthday, as I sat on the edge of my bed, overwhelmed by emotion and in tears, God placed a message in my heart: the reason your mom sends you those scriptures and prayers is because she knows, deep down, she won’t be with us much longer. She wanted to ensure her kids had God’s blueprint in their phones, a daily reminder of her love and faith, even when she was gone.
With this realization, I knew we had to celebrate her 60th birthday in a way that truly honored her. With the support of my fiancé, sisters, and my dad, we decided to throw her a big celebration. I had just come off a successful month in our business, and I spent my last on making sure she received her flowers on her special day. Within two weeks, we found an amazing venue and gathered family and friends to celebrate the incredible woman she was. Her 60th birthday was an unforgettable celebration of her life and spirit.
Sadly, just three months later, her cancer returned aggressively, and she was taken from us before her 62nd birthday.
Reflecting on my mom's actions, I realize that if I felt I was on my way out, I too would send messages and scripture to my kids, to guide them and keep them close to my heart.
As the owner of The Rose, a venue dedicated to celebrating our loved ones, I’m committed to ensuring we give our mothers their roses while they’re still here. In honor of Mattie Harris, I am more invested in celebrating your mom than making money. This mission brings me joy and helps ease my heartache as I continue to mourn my mom.
To anyone whose mom is approaching 60 or is already in her 60s, and hasn’t been celebrated yet, I want to help you plan something special. If you’re on my friend list or we’re mutual friends, this is for you. Join me at open house every Wednesday from 6-8 pm so I can hear your stories and together, we can begin planning your mom’s big day.
Let’s make sure our moms know just how much they mean to us, in this lifetime. Thank you.
Dear Fresno Family, Adrian and Mysti here—your neighbors, your friends, and the proud stewards of **The Rose**. This isn't just a venue; it's *our* sanctuary, *our* escape, and *our* place to celebrate the vibrant spirit of Fresno together. Recently, an incident occurred near our venue that, while completely unrelated to The Rose, still affected our community. Though we had no involvement, it reminded us how important it is to be proactive about keeping our space safe and respected. That's why we're working **hand in hand with Fresno PD**—not just to protect our business, but to protect *you*, our extended family. Starting **April 1st, 2025**, we're introducing some important **updates**. These aren't just rules—they're our shared commitment to ensure The Rose remains the safest, most welcoming nightlife experience in the city. New Health & Safety Initiatives 1. 100% Smoke-Free Environment** - In partnership with **the American Lung Association**, we're proud to announce a completely - - smoke-free property (indoors and outdoors) - No smoking or vaping of any kind will be permitted on premises - We're committed to your health and comfort—clean air matters to all of us 2. Strict Entry/Exit Policy - One entry per night—once you're in, you're in - If you choose to leave, you must exit for the night or pay full cover to re-enter - This ensures proper crowd control and security for everyone's safety Elevated Dress Code We're raising our standards because *you* deserve an exceptional experience. For Gentlemen: Do: - Collared shirts or fashionable tops/fitted shirts - Dress pants or stylish jeans - Clean, fashionable sneakers or dress shoes - Designer hats/fedoras (if wearing headwear) Don't: - Athletic wear (sweats, joggers, hoodies) - Sports caps/beanies - Shorts or baggy clothing - Plain white tees/tank tops - Work boots or dirty footwear For Ladies: Do: - Chic dresses or stylish separates - Classy jumpsuits or evening wear - Heels or fashionable flats - No excessively revealing clothing - No Stripper Wear Don't: - Sweatsuits or joggers - Loungewear or athletic wear - Cut-offs or beachwear - Durags/bandanas - Flip-flops or gym shoes Enhanced Safety Measures - **Professional security team** at all entries and throughout venue - **Zero tolerance** for loitering in parking areas - **Collaboration with Fresno PD** for neighborhood safety - **Strict ID checks** for every guest Why These Changes? The Rose represents *our* community's standard for nightlife excellence. These updates ensure we maintain: A Luxurious atmosphere worthy of your nights out A safe environment where everyone feels comfortable A consistent experience that lives up to our reputation Let's Continue Making Memories Fresno, this is *your* house as much as it is ours. When we come together with pride and respect, we create unforgettable nights that keep our city vibrant. We appreciate your support as we elevate The Rose experience. See you on the dance floor—looking sharp and ready to celebrate! Adrian & Mysti Owners, The Rosé Fresno's Premier Nightlife Destination* **P.S.** Have questions about dress code send email to rosefresnoevents@gmail.com
The Rose 2021 Nye Red Carpet Gala, was its first night of business and soft launch. This breathtaking new restaurant - venue located in the heart of downtown, merely hosted a fun filled, dress to impress class act.